Jelkin Follow 6 followers 14 badges Send a private message to Jelkin. Something s can tear. You should never engage in something you aren't really into. Follow 6 No lube, no nothing. This is the surefire way to get a very painful experience Well it does get better once you relax it must be taken very slowly though
Manual sex feels fine but anal sex really hurts me.
Why does anal sex hurt?
Also, make sure the toys have a wide, flared base, a cable or ring on the bottom that keeps the toy from sliding too far into your anus. You also need to be full on horny. Women don't prefer taller guys. No lube, no nothing. You see none of that. And the anus does not lubricate - not like a vagina.